Wednesday, March 24, 2010

A Trip to the West Coast

One of my resolutions for 2010 was to start traveling more. I am in my prime years and I figured if I don’t complete some of my traveling I want now, I will probably never do it. Consequently, I decided I would start my first travel by visiting a destination I have previously visited...its no where far away, and its not even a different country....its Western Canada specifically British Columbia, and more specifically, Victoria and Vancouver. Double V! I have a few friends up in the West and I had some time off so I figured it would be the best way to start my travels! Here’s a recap of how my trip went (BEWARE! It’s a bit lengthy):


Day 1: Toronto to Victoria


The first day of my travels to Western Canada started with a flight from Toronto to Vancouver. After an hour standby in Vancouver, I took a transfer flight to Victoria, my first destination.


After arriving in Victoria, I took a shuttle bus to downtown, yes for some odd reason Victoria International Airport is about 25 minutes away from mainland Victoria itself. The shuttle brought me downtown where I me

t my friend who was on her lunch break. She gave me instructions on how to get to her suite so I can unsettle and pack while she finished her shift work.


I took a taxi to the suite and had a nice conversation with the driver who was really nice and friendly. After arriving at her suite, a crisis presented itself. Her door, which was supposed to be open for me, was actually locked. I texted her and she told me to speak to the landlady to let me in. When I did this, her landlady was extremely bitchy and refused to let me in, claiming that she only rents the suite to my friend and since she’s not there, she won’t let me in. So...I’m in a foreign city, luggage in my hand, my friend at work for another 4 hours, stranded in a suburban neighborhood not knowing what to do. I was definitely in a pickle. My friend who was furious at the situation thought it best that I go to a nearby coffee shop and spend some time there while waiting for her to finish work. And so I went to a Subway nearby.


At the Subway, I ordered a footlong figuring it would allow me more time to “lolligag” at the restaurant. Eventually, I felt awkward staying in the restaurant, so I decided I’d make the most of my trip and explore the city on my own given that I had a few hours on my hand. In this sense, I am totally adventurous and am not afraid to venture out and explore new things...even if I looked like a total weirdo lugging a packed suitcase with me.


Exploring and walking aimlessly actually turned out to be quite an adventure allowing me to admire the beauty of Victoria. The air is extremely fresh, mountains are in distant sight, and water is marking its territory around the city. Walking with my iPod, I eventually landed myself downtown near my friend’s workplace. As she finished work, she was surprised to see that I had made it all the way downtown. We ranted about the situation and then took the bus back to her suite. Here more drama unfolded, to the point where my friend decided that she could not stay at the suite any longer. Her landlady was too invasive and would look down on her because she was young. Long story short, we checked into a hotel near downtown. What a welcome to the city eh?


After checking into the hotel and finally getting a chance to relax, we decided to go downtown and checkout a movie. We saw Remember Me starring Twilight star, Robert Pattinson. The movie was horrible, in my opinion. It had some high points, but overall, it failed to grab my interest. The theater the movie was playing at though was very vintage and had a nostalgic feel which added some redeeming factor to the horrible movie. After getting to the hotel, we watched some TV (predominantly the Family Channel, of course) and fell asleep. End of one crazy day.


Day 2: Victoria


The second day of my trip allowed me to sleep in a tad. My friend had to go to work early in the morning, so sleeping in was a very tempting option that I decided to choose. I woke up around 10:30 and head out to the McDonald’s across the hotel in hopes to get some breakfast, but unfortunately they had finished their breakfast for the day so I had to get an actual meal to start my day. I returned to the hotel and ate my food while watching some TV (Family, of course). The timezone difference (3 hours behind Toronto) did affect and trip me out sometimes as my cellphone and computer clock would often confuse me.


After satisfying my sleep and comfort needs, it was time I got up and make most of my time in Victoria. Consequently, I took a shower and since it was Friday, I 'Googled' a Mosque nearby and started my day with Friday prayers. The nice thing about relatively small cities is that everything is relatively close to everything else giving incentive to walking. I walked to the Mosque, completed my Friday prayers and decided to explore the city and take pictures...and so the tourist in me came out.


I had quite a few hours to myself so I explored the city, mostly downtown Victoria near the harbor. Downtown Victoria was very cozy. It felt like a tightly packed village. The buildings and streets preserved history and were all old fashioned. Even with new stores like Lush and The Bay, the integrity of the buildings were preserved. The harbor was breathtaking. You could see mountains in the background, boats and ferries coming and going, merchants selling paintings, jewelry, hand crafted items and people enjoying themselves doing their own thing whether it was reading a book, walking their dog, or just mesmerizing the view. This was view was definitely something you won’t find in a big city

After some more strolling, I walked back to the hotel in time for my friend. We ordered a pizza at the hotel, ate and watched some TV (Family, you already know), and then decided to head out. We decided the harbor would be the perfect place to go so we went there and spent our evening at the beautiful Victoria harbor and watched the sunset. It was very nice. When the world became dark, the city lit up with lights popping up over all the big buildings including the parliament/city hall. It looked beautiful and felt even more alive. We stayed for a bit and then went back to the hotel.


The next day we were to go to Vancouver, so we packed our bags, had some snacks, watched TV and went to sleep.


Day 3: Victoria to Vancouver


The third day of my trip was arguably the best as so much was accomplished. The day started with my friend and I checking out of the hotel and catching a bus to the Swartz Bay Ferry terminal to take the ferry to Vancouver. Unfortunately, the bus driver was a douche and wouldn’t let us on the bus because we were a bit late and weren’t standing at the stop but a few meters away from...talk about nice eh? Anyways, we had to take a taxi instead which ended up being fun as our driver tried to cater to our music needs and was making conversation. It was a fun taxi ride.


Upon reaching the ferry terminal we got our tickets and quickly boarded. It had been almost 14 years since I went on the ferry last, but everything seemed so familiar. The ferry was huge and had about 6 decks in which an arcade, gift shop, two restaurants, and much, much more was packed. It felt like we were on the boat from “The Suite Life on Deck”...as you can see, the Family channel is already influencing my blog. After browsing the ferry for a bit, we went to the Pacific Buffet. The buffet was all you can eat and had so many items. It was brunch time so the variety was huge including a salad bar, a desert bar (including chewy cookies, cheesecake, and so much more), and then the main items which went from breakfast stuff like eggs, and french toast to lunch and entree items like tarragon chicken and rice. Oh and did I mention that soft drinks, milk, and juice was included in the buffet? It was amazing. My friend and I stuffed ourselves and forced our stomachs to eat...eat...and eat some more. Granted, we did feel bloated right after. After the buffet, we lounged around in the ferry, sang some Ke$ha, yes you read right, and then played hide and seek. Yes, we are very childish. Oh, and I must add the scenery on the ferry was amazing; the water, the mountains, the fresh air...something you can’t find in Toronto.


When the ferry arrived in Vancouver, my good friend from Vancouver picked us up with her sister. After making a stopover at the mall to pick something up (and meeting some drunken hoes at 2 in the afternoon) we went to her house and freshened up. I’m not going to lie, her house was pretty epic. After freshening up at her place we went downtown via the Skytrain. Did you know the Skytrain has no driver? If your answer was yes, you’re irrelevant, but if you answered no, I KNOW RIGHT, ISN’T THAT SO CRAZY?? It took me a while to wrap my head around that, and once I did, I began to enjoy the ride. It was a cool alternate to a subway (Toronto) and had some really scenic views of the mountains. After arriving downtown my Vancouver friend became a tour guide and took us around town. We saw the 2010 olympic cauldron, went to Live City (and met the Stanley Cup), and browsed downtown for a bit. After we tired out, we got picked up, did some grocery and came back home.


After getting home, we decided to go technologic and went on Chatroullette. If you guys are unfamiliar with Chatroullette, its like a chat (obviously) site, but you also get to see who you are talking to with webcam, so its pretty neat (despite occasional sausage fests). Chatroullette took over the rest of our night. We took a dinner break and then decided to watch Bandslam. However, Chatrolutte took over as my Vancouver friend was on the site throughout the duration of the movie, and then after the movie we all joined her. After tiring out from the super long day, I eventually decided it would be best to call it a night...to bed it was!


Day 4: Vancouver


Because day three was very long, and kept us awake ‘till the early am, we all slept in ‘till the early pm. When we eventually did get up, we had breakfast and then started getting ready to go out.


Our first destination was the Capilano Suspension Bridge. Like the ferry, I hadn’t been here in 14 years, but upon arrival everything was so familiar. As cheesy as it sounds, I could see my 6 year old self taking pictures with the totem poles. 14 years later, the types of pictures being taken were totally different. Mother nature decided to go against us and pour rain us throughout our Capilano adventure. Despite this, it was a lot of fun. The scenery, the nature, the environment, everything about the Capilano Suspension Bridge was breathtaking. My Vancouver friend was acting like a 12 year old and started doing all the adventures and collecting stamps for ever check point she came to as described in the map/adventure guide, my other friend was meeting her ancestors all “heyhowareya”, and I was taking pictures. It was pretty awesome. We ended up staying at the Capilano for quite a bit and when it was time for us to go I didn’t really want to leave but we were running out of time. The funny thing is, the moment we got out of the park, the rain stopped. My 12 year old acting friend’s mission was completed as she got her “I Made It” certificate as we left. My other friend and I got one as well. We’re so cool!!


All that hiking got us hungry so we went to this place called Joey Tomatoes. It was a pretty cool restaurant and had some awesome menu choices. Our server was pretty cool as she gave us all some free dessert samples. It was like souffle with ice cream? Something like that, but it was really good. It definitely “hit the spot” as one would say. After dinner, I got a chance to drive back to my friend’s house (in her car of course) and the ride was awesome simply because Bad Romance was played on the radio. On the way home, we stopped by this park by my friend’s house. What was special about this park? Hmm, i don’t know, JUST THAT THEY SHOT TWILIGHT THERE (well a few scenes of it). No, I’m not a huge Twilight fan, actually I’m not a fan at all, but it was cool to see the set and I got super nationalistic and “patriotic” because it was filmed in Canada.


The rest of the evening had an interesting turn. We went back to my friends and packed our bags. My friend’s parents were to come home that night so my other friend and I had to go check into a hotel for the night. We checked into the Howard Johnson downtown Vancouver and chilled over there for a while. Unfortunately, they didn’t have Family on their TV. After some persuading, I convinced my friend to check out Vancouver nightlife, so I got ready and we went club hopping. Because it was a Sunday most clubs were pretty low profile and no big events were happening. We went to Roxy Bar first and then went to Republic where they were having a Reggae night. They played some GaGa (YES!) but for the most part it was just mediocre. We didn’t stay at either too long and eventually just went back to the hotel and went to sleep...tomorrow would be a day of major traveling.


Day 5: Vancouver to Victoria to Calgary to Toronto


The final day of my amazing trip was all about travel. I started off my day checking out of the Howard Johnson and saying goodbye to my friend who was going back to her home in Calgary. She was taking the Greyhound back. I had a long journey as well; I was catching my flight from Victoria, which would stop by in Calgary (what a coincidence) before landing in Toronto. To get to Victoria I had to take the ferry again, which I was really excited about.


Although I was originally going to get a ride from my friend’s sister to the Ferry terminal, I thought I would just take the Skytrain and bus all the way there. It was a good way to finish my travel I thought and a great way to see some other parts of the city. Alas, I said bye to my friend via text and via FB to her sister and started my journey to the Ferry terminal. It wasn’t that bad actually; I took the Skytrain for about 40 minutes and then had to transfer onto a bus, which took about another 40 minutes. I arrived right in time to catch the ferry at the terminal.


The ferry ride was amazing as per usual, and it wasn’t busy this time. SCORE! I got tickets for the buffet once again, and stayed there for the remainder of the ride. While indulging in the buffet, I also caught up on some missed episodes of Desperate Housewives. Between the drama on the show, the mouthwatering food, the breathtaking scenery outside, and the thrill of being on a boat, I was in heaven. I could stay on the ferry forever and live happily ever after....but of course life is not a fairytale and while thinking this, we had arrived to Swartz Bay Terminal in Victoria. The rest of the story isn’t that interesting; I took a cab to Victoria International Airport where I stayed for a few hours. The flight to Calgary wasn’t bad. After arriving in Calgary, I had a stop over for two hours, and then caught my red eye flight back to Toronto (which I surprisingly liked...I think night travel is the best method of travel for me).


Overall, my trip was outstandingly brilliant and (insert a million complementing adjectives here). Getting to travel to West was an amazing experience as it always is. A few people asked me why I would go to Western Canada again as opposed to traveling somewhere new or the U.S.. I only had one answer; “you haven’t seen Western Canada have you?”


Friday, February 26, 2010

A Very Toronto Valentine

What's Love - Fat Joe Featuring Ja Rule & Ashanti

What's love? Got to do, got to do with it? What's love? Its about us, its about trust.

This hit song of 2002 is the best song that could open this blog post describing my Valentine's day. It is not only "Love" aka Valentine's day themed, but it was also a song, that both my Valentine and I reminisced about during our day together. So how did my first Valentine's day of the new decade go? Pretty epic to say the least.

The morning started pretty early as I had to get downtown to meet my valentine at the bus station. She was travelling down from Ancaster, and I was travelling down from North York. After meeting at the station, we decided we would start our day by heading to the CN tower. Toronto radio station Kiss 92.5 were holding a Valentine's day inspired "KiSS"ing booth event at the base of the CN tower, so my valentine and I decided we would start our day off by checking it out. After circling the tower a few times in and out, we eventually found it and head to where all the buzz was.

As we walked in, we were greeted by these hostesses who were handing out samples of Baci chocolate. The chocolate was pretty good; it had a taste and similar consistency to Ferreror Rocher, though Ferrero Rocher, in my opinion, is far better. As we continued walking, there was a booth with large speakers set up playing KiSS 92.5 music with Adam Wylde (KiSS 92.5 DJ/RJ). There was a spinning wheel, plenty of Baci chocolate, and a kissing booth that seemed to have been sponsored by the film Valentine's Day.

Upon reaching the booth, one of the KiSS 92.5 representatives told us that we could get a ballot to win a trip for 2 to the Dominican Republic if we kiss in the
booth. My valentine asks, "Should we do it?". Before answering the question, the guy tells us it has to be in the booth, not where we were standing (I guess he didn't realize she was asking me a question, not suggesting to do it right then). We move into the kissing booth, and without any questions, bam. Kiss me, down by the moonligh--okay that song is too romantic for the situation, how about...She want that lovey,dovey, that kiss, kiss, in her mind she fantasize 'bout gettin' with me...Okay that's way better. What a way to start Valentine's Day, eh?

Thanks to KiSS, and us kissing, we got ourselves not only a ballot for a chance to win a trip for 2 to the Dominican (we decided we'd take each other if either of us won...neither of us won) AND we got 2 free passes to go see the movie Valentine's Day each (oh and of course, quite a bit of Baci chocolate)! We went to the spinning wheel, and just our luck, we won more chocolate.

After leaving the CN tower, my valentine and I became Toronto tourists (despite it being both of ours millionth time there, figuratively of course) taking pictures with random objects and interesting buildings on our way to go shopping. I needed to update my spring collection, and my valentine knew my style and gave me honest advice, so she helped me pick some stuff up. We went to Forever 21 where I found a few staple items, and then decided to go for lunch before continuing our shopping.

While heading to lunch, I got a "tweet" from Adam Wylde asking why I didn't come say hi when I was at the booth (I had tweeted about getting Valentine's Day passes). The truth was at the time it was quite busy at his station, so I told him we'd go back after lunch. We went to lunch at
this restaurant called Spring Rolls where we both ordered Pad Thai. It was a classic at that restaurant, and was absolutely amazing. While at the restaurant, our waiter told us about how he had scored a date for Valentine's day this year and it was his first time on a date in a long, long time. We weren't sure if he was being genuine with this story, or if he just wanted a bigger tip...regardless, it was cute. During our lunch, the two of us started naming some of our favourite Valentine's Day inspired songs (this was inspired from my "tweet special" I did on Valentine's Day). Talking about this and other things eventually brought us both to the end of our dishes and we began making our way back to the CN tower.

We decided to "slowly" make our way back, stopping at different places on the way. I stopped by two HMV's to look for this old Jennifer Lopez CD (J to tha L-O - The Remixes) which
neither had (though I eventually found it on eBay and ordered it from there). The talk about the CD brought us to reminisce about
some classic songs we used to listen to in middle school. Among
these songs, a popular one was "What's Love?" by Fat Joe featuring Ashanti and Ja Rule. This is what eventually inspired
the opening of my blog. We went through the Eatons centre where they had a Vancouver 2010 Olympics Booth sponsored by Bell,
giving people the opportunity to hold the torch and get their
picture taken. Naturally being "patriotic" about Canada holding the Olympics this year, we got our picture taken. While making our way through the mall, we found other Valentine's Day events including a wall where you can write a message to your valentine. "J'adore le Khizer" is what my valentine wrote. After browsing through a few shops we left the Eaton's Centre and continued our journey back to the CN tower.

Our walk back was very nice, we spoke about many memories, and were able to catch up on quite a few topics...of course we threw some picture taking in our walk too. Eventually we made it to the CN tower...got more free Baci chocolate, and met up with Adam Wylde. It was my first
time meeting him after a few phone call and tweet exchanges, and
we both found that he was a really cool guy. During our conversation with him, myself, Adam and his tech friend tried to convince my valentine to create a Twitter account. Although hesitant at first, peer pressure eventually got her to say okay. We took some more pictures, and then made our way to more shopping. In disbelief, I asked my valentine if she was really going to make a Twitter. "No!" she exclaimed. So much for peer pressure.

After our second visit to the CN tower, we made our way to the other side of Queen Street, my "valentines side of Queen street" as we call it. There we went to shops like H&M, Urban Outfitters, Lush, and another HMV (didn't find the CD there either). I picked up a really cool piano themed belt from Urban Outfitters, while my valentine found some things at H&M. As much as I tried to bring myself to get at least one item from H&M, I couldn't. As much as I tried, nothing there significantly caught my appeal. Sorry H&M, maybe next time.

As we finished the last of our shopping, our day was coming to an end. Although we wanted to see a movie and go do a few more things, we both needed to catch our
respective trains and subways to get back home at a decent hour. We talked about our day and how we both felt it was "epic" as we both say. It was getting darker, and we both had to say our goodbyes. I waited with my valentine at her station stop for her bus. It eventually came and we said our final goodbyes and gave each other some big hugs. Just like that, Valentine's Day for us was over.

Reading through my blog, words don't really seem to capture our day with much justice, however it was the simplicity of our day that made it so good. Spending time with each other where it was by walking or by shopping was fantastic. Ultimately, can anyone take a guess to the secret of our successful Valentine's Day?

Neither of us are dating.


Thursday, February 25, 2010

Khizer's 20th Birthday Poster


Hey y'all!

My 20th Birthday is coming up in about a month's time and preparations have already started.

Here is the final copy of the poster!

-Khizer

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Movie Review: My Name Is Khan

September 11th, 2001. This is a day that destroyed many lives. This is a day that started a whole new level of hate crime. This is a day that ultimately caused the world to change. Consequently, the events that occurred on this date, caused many filmmakers to produce movies related around the event, but none captured the aftermath of this event as successfully as Karan Johar's "My Name Is Khan".

*SPOILER ALERT: THERE MAY BE FEW SPOILERS IN THIS REVIEW, BUT I DON'T GIVE AWAY THE ENDING, I MERELY BRING UP SOME IMPORTANT SCENARIOS IN THE FILM THAT MIGHT BUILD MORE ANTICIPATION FOR THE FILM. IF THAT DOESN'T INTEREST YOU, I WOULD STOP READING NOW*


Starring Bollywood veterans, Shahrukh Khan and Kajol, the film revolves around Rizwan Khan (Shahrukh Khan) who has Asperger's syndrome. The story is told via flashbacks of a letter Rizwan is writing to his wife, Mandira (Kajol), while he is on a mission. The mission is to meet the president and tell him, "My name is Khan, and I am not a terrorist". Through flashbacks, we come to know the reasons behind his mission. Khan is a good natured Muslim man who gets married to Mandira, a Hindu female. After being happily married a few years, the couple begins to go through problems after 9/11 strikes. Because Khan is a Muslim, they lose jobs, go through financial troubles, and consequently lose their son who is killed in a soccer field because of his Muslim last name. Mandira becomes devasted, and claims Rizwan to be the killer of their child as he would still be alive had she not married him. Rizwan, who was never taught that one religion is bad but that people come in 2 forms; good or bad despite their religion, tries to explain how terrorism isn't just Muslim based. Mandira tells him to go tell the president that, and so he begins his mission declaring that he won't come home until he accomplishes it...and so he goes on a long and hard journey meeting many people, and obstacles on the way.

Khizer's review/rant/opinions:

Although this movie is Bollywood, therefore being in Hindi/Urdu, I would honestly urge EVERYONE reading this to check it out. Because of the popularity of Bollywood movies in the world these days, they play in many large theatres with English subtitles.

This movie is one of the very few, if not the only one that shows post 9/11 consequences in eyes of the Muslim world. Most of the films that are made regarding terrorism and 9/11 inspired stories, often show the Muslim world to be heavily involved in terrorist attacks, but this movie shows that terrorism does not have any religion. There are good and bad people in every religion. There are extremists in every religion. This movie shows how a Muslim man who is very into religion is also helping to the rest of the community. It shows how as a Muslim, he still hurts, he still feels, he's still a human being. He is not some violent person carrying animosity against the rest of the world. People need to see that, in my opinion. People need to see that there are good and bad people everywhere and to not discriminate, stereotype, or hate based on biased judgements. I published a blog on stereotypes a while back, and as you can see, it is an issue that I think about very seriously.

My Name is Khan also explores other themes in the movie which include, love and acceptance. The love story and chemistry between Rizwan and Mandira is beautiful. Mandira accepts Rizwan for who he is despite him having Asperger's syndrome, and Rizwan's dedication and unconditional love for Mandira is so inspiring. Although he is on his mission to tell the president that "his name is Khan and he is not a terrorist", it seems that the reason behind him doing so (in his eyes) isn't necessarily to make the point that just because he is a Muslim, he shouldn't be called a terrorist, but to prove his love to Mandira. There is a scene in the film, where he sees Mandira looking for him, however, as much as he wants to confront her, he doesn't because he has't fulfilled his promise. In addition to spousal love, the movie also shows parental love, probably one of the greatest love one can get in this world. The connection between Mandira and her son Sameer is so heartwarming, and the amount of love she has for him is indescribable. She sacrifices her husband, her job, and her life, just to get him justice. If this isn't true love, what is?

The movie also shows how the only limits in life are the ones you set for yourself. Diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, Rizwan is bright from a young age, and because of love from his mom, brother, sister-in-law, wife, and child, he is able to accomplish so much. He lives life to the fullest, he functions just like everybody else, he works just like everybody else, and he interacts just like everybody else. Yes, because of the syndrome, some people might look at him as odd, or find things he does funny, or even go to the extent that he should be in special facilities, but really if he doesn't set any limits to his life than who are these people to do so? If everyone was the same and normal in this world where would the variety be?

I could keep going on about how good this movie is, but I will become redundant and annoying. The movie has already become one of the highest grossing Bollywood films, and is getting rave reviews from not only the Bollywood community, but in the Western world as well from major journals like the New York Times. I think the only drawback to the film is its lengthiness (almost 3 hours long), though the time is well used as there are very few drag scenes. The movie just hit theatres last week, so I would urge everyone once again to give the movie a shot. Take a loved one, take a friend, or even go yourself, but check it out....and if for some reason you miss it in theatres, I'm sure it will be out on DVD in the near future...this is one film you don't want to miss.

Khizer's rating: 5 stars

Here's a theatrical trailer:


Sunday, February 14, 2010

Happy Valentine's Day!!

Hello Everyone!

So today is/was Valentine's Day, the first of this decade *OMG OMG OMG*, and I must say it started off with a bang as I had a fabulous time. I will post my story sometime this week to keep a look out for that post.

On a side-completely-unrelated-note, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!

Valentine's Day is a day of love, which doesn't mean you need to be with someone to enjoy it. Whether you're in a relationship or single, there are many ways to express the joy of Valentine's Day and spreading the love!

My way of spreading the love to all of you is a list of some of my favourite Valentine's Day songs. If you follow me on Twitter, you would have seen I did a Top 5 countdown. Here are those 5 songs, plus a few other Valentine's Day inspired songs for you to listen when you get a chance. Most of them are mainstream, so I'm sure you've heard them...but hey, maybe I'll make you fall in LOVE with some of those songs again!


Top 5 Songs:

1. Dangerously in Love - Destiny's Child
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jurs7llY1l4

2. Baby Love - Nicole Scherzinger Feat. Will.I.Am
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yyx0NFjVzEk

3. With You - Chris Brown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nmjdaBaZe8Y

4. Write You A Song - Plain White T's
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YEgLmy7Z1k

5. With Love - Hilary Duff
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhgLoanz1b4


Some other songs Valentine's Day inspired songs that I love:

Take My Breath Away - Jessica Simpson
For The Nights I Can't Remember - Hedley
The Reason - Hoobastank
My Love - Justin Timberlake Feat. T.I.

I hope you guys all have/had a great Valentine's Day!

'Till next year,

Khizer

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Ask Me Anything!

Hey everyone,

So I recently jumped on the formspring.me wagon. It's a website where you can ask someone a question (anonymously or non-anonymously) and then they answer them and it posts to their profile. You don't need to make an account to ask!

I've already answered a bunch of questions, I know some of them are a bit jokey, but if you ask me an honest question, I'll give an honest answer.

Check it out:

http://www.formspring.me/khizerlicious

-Khizer

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Forgiveness

Forgiveness - Anna Faris

Forgiveness, is more than saying sorry. Forgiveness, is accepting people's flaws…To forgive is divine, so let's have a glass of wine, and have make-up sex, until the end of…time, time, time, time.

This song from the movie Just Friends, though a bit humorous, does have a way of connecting to my blog post today.

I was watching Desperate Housewives earlier this morning, season 2 to be specific (I'd get the episode name and number, but that would make me too nerdy). In this season, a character named George is obsessed with Bree to the extent that he'd do anything to get her…this included killing her husband, her therapist, provoking her son and getting him sent to boarding school, and burning the car of her ex fling. When Bree finally realized this, she broke it off with him causing George to overdose on pills. When Bree came to realize this, she told him that she can still forgive him provided that he accepts his mistake.

Why am I telling you this? Well, this scenario got me thinking that in life, one of the hardest things to do is forgive, and at the same time, it can be just as hard to accept your flaws, mistakes, and wrong-doings. But why do we make this hard for ourselves? Accepting your flaws and mistakes may seem embarrassing to you or a loss of pride for some, but in reality, I believe accepting flaws and mistakes, is not only the honourable thing to do, but you will look like a better person. If I were Bree, I would be in no position to forgive George, but then I thought, what if by forgiving the wrongdoer, they actually learn their lesson. I'm sure George didn't expect her to forgive him, but what if her forgiveness would cause George to get help, get him to change, and maybe seek redemption by doing right in this world. People do deserve a second chance. I'm not one to bring religion in to things, but I learned that in the Islamic faith, not forgiving a person who asks for forgiveness, is equivalent to destroying the holy Ka'Bah 10 times. My statistics may be erroneous, and of course many readers are of different faiths, but the example does put it in a sort of perspective, does it not?

Life is short, and you never know what's going to happen next. I'm not going to lie, I've been guilty of both; not owning up to my mistakes, or to keep my pride high, i wouldn't admit to loss or correction and at the same time, I would also hold some everlasting grudges. Who hasn't? But I believe that if someone apologizes and asks for forgiveness, and they seem sincere about it, forgive them. If its something extreme or something huge, you can forgive them and just keep your distance from that person, but at least forgive them. You'll feel good about yourself and maybe even set an example for the other person. As to owning up to mistakes, and admitting that you were wrong…yes, it is a hard thing to do, and your pride and even your ego may feel hurt, but it is (like I mentioned before), the honourable thing to do.

In this world, we don't like to be judged by others, so in return, we should also avoid passing judgement, and leave it to the hierarchy, or if you don't believe in a supreme power, leave it to karma. What goes around, comes around.